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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

by Lori Gottlieb

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Gottlieb does something genuinely daring here: she writes as both therapist and patient simultaneously, using her own crisis — a broken engagement, a stalled life — to interrogate the same resistance and self-deception she witnesses in her clients. The parallel structure is the book's real argument, not just its device. The prose is warm and unshowy, occasionally too tidy, but the emotional honesty earns it. This works best for anyone sitting with something unexamined — grief, stagnation, the suspicion that they're the problem in their own story. It's therapy-adjacent without being prescriptive, and surprisingly funny.

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"Gottlieb is the rare therapist-writer who is as honest about her own mess as anyone's. This one will make you cry and laugh in the same chapter."

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The Therapist on the Couch: Why Lori Gottlieb's Memoir Is the Most Human Book About Healing

What happens when the therapist becomes the patient? Lori Gottlieb doesn't just answer that question — she dismantles the wall we build between the people who need help and the people who give it. This is a book that will make you laugh out loud on one page and sit very quietly on the next, wondering when exactly it started reading your mind.


Book Details

Publisher
HarperCollins Publishers
Published
January 1, 2019
Pages
433
Language
English

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