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The Courage to Be Disliked
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Is The Courage to Be Disliked Worth Reading?

How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life, and Achieve Real Happiness

by Ichiro Kishimi

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Written by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga, this Japanese bestseller presents the teachings of Alfred Adler through a Socratic dialogue between a philosopher and a young man over five nights. Adlerian psychology argues that trauma does not determine our lives — we choose our responses, and all problems are fundamentally interpersonal. The book challenges readers to separate their own tasks from others' approval, offering a liberating if initially confronting framework for personal freedom. Brisk, argumentative, and surprisingly moving, it sold millions across Asia before becoming a global phenomenon.

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Adler via Socrates — deceptively simple, genuinely disruptive. It will make you argue with yourself for weeks.

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What If Your Past Has No Power Over You?

Structured as a five-night dialogue between a philosopher and a young skeptic, this book asks one of the most quietly radical questions I've encountered: what if you aren't defined by what happened to you? Adlerian psychology sounds clinical until Kishimi makes it feel like a door swinging open in a room you'd stopped noticing was locked. Read it slowly — it rewards every argument you try to pick with it.


Book Details

Publisher
Allen & Unwin
Published
January 1, 2013
Pages
280
Language
English

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4.3

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Common Questions About The Courage to Be Disliked

Is The Courage to Be Disliked worth reading?
Adler via Socrates — deceptively simple, genuinely disruptive. It will make you argue with yourself for weeks. Ada rates it 4.3 out of 5.
How many pages is The Courage to Be Disliked?
The Courage to Be Disliked is 280 pages long — around 5–6 hours at an average reading pace.